the defination of LOVE

I have received a call from a friend that been not contact for quite sometimes…. we had a great chat initially, but suddenly he bombed me a question… "henry, how u definate love?" holly jesus christ!!! i really dont know how to asnwer him… thats make me stoned for a while,silent and blank in my mind… y? well, i didnt give him the anwer… coz i really dun know how to answer!!!

after the end of the conversations in phone… i started to wonder… suddenly bumped into my mind… am i too long never fall in love ? that make me forget the feelings of strong liking, affections, eager, yeaning and anxiety….hahaha … maybe… perhaps, there are true loves around….

well, i think ' Love ' is beyond our rational understanding. Mind has failed to catch hold of it, let alone analyse and understand it. So whatever the mind says about love would be false.

So you see, love is as old as the universe, but it is always new, because mind has failed to understand it. Once you understand a thing it becomes old. But love is one thing that never became old, because it is beyond the imagination of mind. And it is good that love cannot be understood. Otherwise, if you can catch hold of it anyway, and dissect it, analyse it and know its secrets and mysteries, it will die and it will lose its charm, and everything in the universe will become ugly without it.

So its good you don’t understand love. If you understood it, it would appear less charming to us. And no one would care for it. Now since you don’t understand it, you posed the question. Like you millions who died, who are living, and who are yet to come will pose the same question, again and again, and all through their lives they will be searching an answer for it. But the answer would remain elusive for all times. No one could ever in all the history give a satisfactory answer to the question, as there is no answer to it. It is good, that the question doesn’t provide an answer, and that makes love mysterious and all the more beautiful.

i realised that even without the shower of love by of bond wich is the inner connection when another person is part of your identity, but i still have loves from family, friends and union (*v*)

lets share your love in the month of Valentines...

all u need is love!!!!